My boyfriend wants to date other people and I'm not sure how to take it.
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My boyfriend wants to date other people and I'm not sure how to take it.
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You really look filipino, make your hair short long is not a good look
ОтветитьУдалитьI am into both and all of the above. :D
ОтветитьУдалитьare you into transmen or regular cis men?
ОтветитьУдалитьThat's something I wouldn't blame, but I've asked him several times now if
ОтветитьУдалитьit is because he just cannot be in a gay relationship, if my gender is a
problem, but he again and again tries to reassure me "I am completely
comfortable being in a gay relationship." It is the fact that answers don't
match up, how they contradict each other and the uncertainty that accounts
for most of my being upset. The answers are not clear at all. Today, things
are so-so, we're still together, but it looks grim.
I'm so sorry man, this sucks! And don't for one second feel bad about
ОтветитьУдалитьwanting to break up and not being comfortable with an open relationship. If
he expects you to respect his wishes, he should respect yours as well. Just
try and stay strong man!
Thanks foo. It seems we are at a limbo stage right now. His words were "I
ОтветитьУдалитьthink I will give it another shot" but I am not feeling very optimistic
sadly.
Thank you! We are still seeking couple's counseling, but with him bailing
ОтветитьУдалитьout on a variety of things when stuff gets tough, it doesn't look so good.
My faith in the relationship is heavily shaken after what happened that
week and it has been hard for me to move past it like nothing happened.
Hey, I'm an FTM too. I know exactly what you are going through. I have
ОтветитьУдалитьfriends that are trans that broke up with the person they are dating
because that person isn't comfortable with it. Like I know someone who is a
transguy and he had to break up with his gf because his gf (or should I say
ex-gf) identifies as a lesbian.
You are absolutely allowed to be feeling all you are feeling about this. As
ОтветитьУдалитьyou were talking, you cited some signs from early on that some things
weren't right. I advise you to think hard and find further clues of things
he did like that. It might put things into a new perspective. Something
that struck me very much was how you said he's not gay. I wonder if that
has more to do with this. I'm always here to talk if you need. ::hugs::
btw, your new haircut is very sexy.
I know it must be really tough for u right now. It's hard for us to help,
ОтветитьУдалитьbut perhaps trying to think from your bf's perspective might help it make
sense a little... Being a heterosexual guy, I'm sure he tried really hard
to keep the relationship going too. Just like you can't choose ur gender
identity, he can't choose his sexual preference. It's just not something we
can change even if we wanted to... he seems to be discovering this. Maybe
it's time for u to explore the world a little more too?
Oh man, I can only imagine how hard that is. I know this may come off wrong
ОтветитьУдалитьto whoever might read this, but I usually think that if you're with someone
long enough (like for my boyfriend and I 6.5+ years) I would at least hope
that you'd love each other no matter what, no matter what shell they are
in. That's just what I hope, but everyone is entitled to their preferences
I guess. It's still the same heart on the inside though. :(
If you are not a ploy person, you should not be made guilty for not wanting
ОтветитьУдалитьan open relationship. You can't change his feelings unfortunately, its up
to him to figure out, I'll be here if you need to talk. You have every
right to feel as you do. I loves you D;.